Finding support and empowerment in coming out

By Eve Larard-Tansley, JLL

Coming out can feel really scary and overwhelming, often we jump to the worst possible scenario. But once we’ve accepted ourselves coming out can be truly life-changing.

So, when you’re ready to share this part of yourself, where do you start? How do you go about it? Well, everyone's situation is different and there's no one right answer. But, from experience, a good first step is connecting with people, groups, or organisations in the LGBTQ+ community.

Whether you find support through work or social environments, or even online, talking to people who've been through similar experiences can be really helpful. They can provide guidance and understanding because they've walked a similar path.

If you feel comfortable, you could come out to friends or family members who you believe will be accepting. Having their support and encouragement can make a big difference during your journey.

Remember, not everyone will react the same way. Some people might need time to process and understand. Just be patient and open to conversations.

Most importantly, trust your instincts and take things at your own pace. Coming out is your journey, and you should feel empowered to share yourself in your own way. You deserve love, support, and acceptance, so surround yourself with people who will be there for you.