Pride Is a Stark Reminder to Live Authentically and Unapologetically

By Tyler Dillard, Legal Counsel, Vice President from Swiss Re

Pride is a period of celebration of identity and diversity, awareness and education, and remembrance of the challenges and struggles of those who have come before us. For me, it is also a time of reflection on the self and a stark reminder to live authentically and unapologetically.

Being raised in a deeply religious region of the US, I deflected attention from my sexuality during my adolescent years and repressed it as best I could. I camouflaged my "forbidden secret" by assuming the role of the dutiful, reverential boy, achieving impeccable grades, getting into prestigious universities, and winning classical piano competitions, all while "praying the gay away." Exiting the proverbial closet was a frightening prospect, borne out of genuine fear of isolation, rejection, discrimination, and violence. It was an arduous and spiritual journey, the start of which coincided with my first Pride month (several years ago now).

Tyler Dillard, Legal Counsel, Vice President from Swiss Re

My first Pride parade was an existential moment for me. I looked on in amazement and adoration as the brightly colored floats passed by, the drag queens mimed their hearts out, and a multitude of diverse individuals adorned themselves with rainbow decorations. However, what I remember most vividly were the faces of the participants, their unadulterated joy, and a feeling of liberation. At that moment, my feelings of isolation dissipated, and I felt a sense of belonging among strangers that, like me, had been bruised yet remained undeterred. I then made a solemn vow to myself that I would no longer squander precious time concealing a fundamental part of myself, but instead channel that energy towards supporting and promoting this community that accepted and embraced all of me.

For me, Pride transcends a month or day in the diversity calendar. It is a history lesson. It is a call to action, urging us to work towards a future of equality and inclusion for all. It is a signal of support to those living in environments hostile to LGBTQ+ people and fearing persecution. It is an expression of authenticity, a reminder of the diversity that makes our world rich and beautiful, and a celebration of the visceral experience of being true to oneself – not only in June but all year long.