Proud 2B Parents announce launch of LGBT+ Parents/Carers Day on September 19

Mark your calendars for September 19th, as Proud 2B Parents launches the first LGBT+ Parents/Carers Day. This special day aims to honor the achievements, recognize the challenges, and celebrate the rich diversity of LGBTQ+ families. The event, with its resonant tagline – "Creating a future where our community is seen, heard, and fully acknowledged" – will bring visibility to all families, highlighting their journey and resilience.

Why September 19th?

The choice of this date is not accidental; it carries historical significance that spans back to a key moment in 1976. On this day, Spare Rib, a pioneering feminist magazine, published a feature that would forever change the landscape for lesbian parents in the UK. The article called for greater action and visibility for lesbian mothers facing discriminatory legal battles over child custody. This public advocacy not only shed light on the struggles of non-traditional families but also spurred much-needed objective research into LGBT+ parenting, dismantling harmful stereotypes along the way.

One figure instrumental in challenging these misconceptions is Professor Susan Golombok. In her groundbreaking book, Modern Families: Parents and Children in New Family Forms, she meticulously traces the journey of LGBTQ+ families through over 40 years of research. Golombok’s work explores the rich tapestry of family structures that have emerged since the 1970s, pushing back against outdated ideals of the ‘nuclear family’. Her research underscores a powerful truth: the strength of a family lies in the love, support, and commitment shared between its members, regardless of whether they fit traditional molds.

Changing definitions of family

During the 1970s, the image of a 'proper' family was dominated by the heterosexual nuclear model – married parents and biological children. But societal changes, including advances in reproductive technologies, the rise in single-parent households, and the growing visibility of LGBTQ+ families, have since reshaped the concept of what a family looks like. In fact, today, non-traditional families are more common than ever, showcasing the beauty and richness of diverse experiences.

Golombok’s extensive research also reveals something profound: children raised by LGBT+ parents, whether born through assisted reproduction or adoption, often thrive in environments filled with love and dedication. These families, united through a deep desire for children, overcome societal hurdles and challenge the myth that children need traditional gender role models to flourish.

The fight for recognition and rights

The road to acceptance for LGBTQ+ parents has been long and fraught with challenges. In the past, same-sex parenting was vilified, with lesbian mothers in particular facing brutal custody battles. Courts often ruled against them, arguing that their sexual orientation made them unfit to raise children. It was a gross reflection of the societal biases that held sway during that time. However, as awareness and advocacy have grown, laws have shifted in many countries. Today, LGBTQ+ parents can marry, adopt, and legally build families together. Yet, these rights, hard-won in many parts of the world, are not universal. In some regions, LGBTQ+ relationships remain criminalized, underscoring the continued need for activism.

By commemorating September 19th, Proud 2 b Parents is pushing for greater visibility and understanding. “This day is about acknowledging the struggles faced by our community, highlighting the ongoing need for equality, and breaking free from harmful stereotypes. It’s about building a future where everyone is seen, heard, and fully acknowledged,” says Matt Taylor-Roberts, Founder and Managing Director of Proud 2 b Parents.

How you can get involved

There are many ways you can take part in this important day. Your actions, no matter how small, can contribute to a more inclusive and accepting society. Here are some ways to get involved:

• Share Personal Stories: Encourage colleagues or friends within your organization to share their experiences with LGBTQ+ parenting. Personal narratives are powerful tools for education and advocacy, helping to break down barriers and dispel myths.
• Engage on Social Media: Join the conversation online using hashtags #LGBTQIAParentsCarersDay and #Proud2bParents. Social media plays a huge role in amplifying the voices of LGBTQ+ families, and with the help of an attached social media asset pack, you can actively contribute to raising awareness and celebrating family diversity.
• Raise Awareness: Spread the word about the historical significance of September 19th and the ongoing challenges faced by LGBTQ+ parents and carers. Sharing informative articles and resources within your networks can make a significant difference.
• Organizational Training: Is your workplace in need of greater awareness about the experiences and needs of LGBTQ+ parents? Proud 2 b Parents offers Lunch and Learn sessions that can help foster understanding and support change within organizations. Book a session by emailing [email protected].
• Individual Training: Interested in developing your own understanding of these issues? You can attend an online training session on September 19th, from 11 am to 1:30 pm. More details and tickets are available via Eventbrite.

Join the celebration

This September 19th, Proud 2B Parents invites everyone to join in recognizing the progress made, the challenges still faced, and the vibrancy of LGBTQ+ families. This day is not just about looking back at how far we’ve come; it’s about pushing forward, ensuring that every family – no matter how they’re formed – is celebrated, respected, and supported.

Let’s stand together in creating a future where all families are seen, heard, and fully acknowledged. myGwork is a proud founding supporter of LGBT+ Parents/Carers Day.