'Queer Santa' Has Been Giving Rejected LGBTQ+ Kids Presents for Over 2 Decades
December 21, 2020Linda Warren has been giving queer kids rejected by their parents presents for 22 years as part of her “holigay” celebration at The Center on Colfax, an LGBT+ youth centre in Denver, Colorado.
As ‘Upworthy’ writes, two decades ago, when Warren was preparing for a holiday party on Christmas Eve she received a call that would change her life. The person on the other end of the call – someone who worked at the GLBT Community Center of Colorado — informed her that presents for the LGBT+ children's holiday party had fallen through at the last moment. Without hesitation, Warren put her own holiday plans on hold and bought gift cards for children who'd been rejected by their parents with her own money. Thus ‘Queer Santa’ was born, a role she has reprised every year since, with the wholesome tradition growing bigger and better each year.
“It was with children who would not get a Christmas present because they were gay and their parents did not accept them,” Warren said in a recent interview about the tradition's inception.
“Twenty-two years ago... I told the people at The Center that I would do this, but that I did not want anyone turned down. They did not have to be gay. It was just if they were not going to get a present because they had been put out of their home, I wanted to make sure that they were taken care of.”
This year, Warren's 22nd year handing out gifts at the Holigay celebration put on by The Center on Colfax, they had their largest turnout yet with 61 people showing up for the festivities.
Wearing a face shield and a jolly red suit, the 77-year-old and her volunteer helpers delivered the presents to the waiting cars in the socially distanced celebration. The Center adapted the annual event to meet pandemic requirements this time, giving kids the opportunity to sign up for a gift.
The volunteers bought gift cards, fun things like rainbow socks, and candy, with funds raised by Warren throughout the year, wrapped the presents, and set them all up on a group of tables in the center's parking lot. “In all my 77 years, I don't believe I've ever seen a year like this,” Warren said of the turnout.
“From the very start, there was one thing I required of the gifts," Warren said in an interview. “I said, ‘I don’t know a lot about this, but I feel the children don't get a lot of love,’ so I wanted them all to have a tag that said, ‘Love, Santa.’”
Speaking of what the name Queer Santa means to her, she said: “The word 'queer' was used to make fun of us when I was growing up. But I had to finally realize that the children of this day in time have taken that word back, and they will not let people make fun of us by using queer. So, it took me a while to get used to being 'Queer Santa,' but I did. So I was like, 'Oh God, please don't call me that.' But then I was like, 'It's alright, it's theirs. So, we will do it.' And so now I just refer to myself as Queer Santa.
“Back when I was coming up, you weren't accepted at all. If anyone found out you were gay, you wouldn't have any friends hardly. My family did find out I was gay after I was grown and they disowned me. So it's very important to me, to make sure that all children are taken care of and that we can do anything that we can,” she added.
To make sure no child feels left out of the holiday spirit for years to come, Warren already has found a successor to fill her Santa boots. “A part of me doesn’t want to quit until I just keel over, but another part of me says that’s not very giving," she said. "It’s selfish to not let someone else have the enjoyment and fun that I’ve had the last 20 years.”
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