Who are your Black LGBTQ+ role models?
This may seem out of left field having admitted to having a queer mother, but I was really closeted given my Jamaican background. In your teenage years, you really try your best to just fit in your current environment, but I knew I was gay since I was at least 12. I already had one strike against me and being gay would be another conundrum to face in such an awkward time. We had a very feminine gay person in my grade during high school and I remember thinking about how nice it is for him to just be himself (even though he did have a couple of altercations, and I’m generally not a confrontational person). Additionally, in 2004, the beginning of my junior year of high school, the “Real World: Philadelphia” debuted and one of the cast members, Karamo Brown, really resonated with me. I picked up on the subtle hints of him being gay before he came out on the show, and he was genuinely the first Black gay man that I’ve seen on TV that wasn’t being portrayed as being “strange” at the time. Seeing how he interacted with the other gay man on the show, like William, it gave me a bit more insight on how it was being Black and gay. I don’t believe the season aged particularly well, because a lot of stereotypes were prevalent, but the way that Karamo navigated that show as the “masculine” Black man resonated with me at the time. It showed me that being Black and gay can be celebrated and not limited to the little media representation we had at the time. I still remained closeted for a long time, because I had to be, but Karamo has been on my mind since I was 16 and I was even more thrilled to see him on the reboot of Queer Eye.