Don’t ask gender unless you have a specific reason to. If you must ask, make it optional, use pronouns instead when your real goal is knowing how to address someone, and offer a multi-select or free-text field for gender identity rather than a binary dropdown. That single decision fixes most of what makes application forms feel exclusionary.
Here’s what to do right now:

Gender-neutral application forms work best when they ask only what’s necessary, keep every gender-related question optional, and separate identity data from hiring decisions entirely.
The default answer is no. If gender or sex data doesn’t serve a specific, nameable purpose, the most inclusive practice is to skip the question entirely. Every field you add is friction, and for gender-diverse applicants, an unnecessary gender question can read as a signal that they’re being screened rather than considered.
Run your form through this checklist before adding any gender or sex field:
That last point matters more than it sounds. A demographics module placed after someone has already submitted their resume and cover letter feels like a voluntary add-on. The same questions embedded in page one of the application feel like a gate. Same data, different experience, very different completion rates.
Copy-ready patterns beat abstract advice, so here’s what to actually put on the page.
Pronouns field. Ask this when your goal is knowing how to address someone in interviews, emails, and offer letters. Frame it as a courtesy, not a data point, and always make it optional with a free-text option:
Gender identity field. Two patterns work well here, and both outperform a single-select dropdown. The first is a multi-select list with a self-describe option, since identities aren’t mutually exclusive and forcing a single choice erases real people. The second is a plain free-text field, which gives applicants maximum control over how they’re represented:
Skip “Other” entirely. It reads as an afterthought bucket, not a real option, and it tends to lump together identities that have nothing in common with each other.
Titles and honorifics. Keep these optional and offer neutral choices alongside traditional ones: Mr., Ms., Mx., Dr., or a free-text field. Mx. specifically signals that your organization has thought about this, not just defaulted to a legacy list.
Pro Tip: Put a one-line explainer above any demographic field, not below it. Applicants decide whether to answer honestly before they read the options, not after.
Sample microcopy that ties it together: “This section is optional. We ask about pronouns so we can address you correctly, and we ask about gender identity to help us track and improve diversity in our hiring process. This information is never shared with hiring managers.”
The technical build matters as much as the field wording. A well-worded question sitting in a database that leaks into a reviewer’s dashboard defeats the entire purpose.
None of this requires custom engineering from scratch. Most modern applicant tracking systems support custom fields with configurable visibility, so the constraint is usually about how your team configures Gender options in ATS, not what the software can do.
Two separate problems live under “privacy” here: keeping sensitive data secure, and keeping it from influencing decisions it shouldn’t influence. Solve both, not just one.
Start with the copy. A short line explaining why you collect gender data and linking to your full privacy policy does more to build trust than any technical safeguard, because applicants can’t see your access controls, but they can see your explanation.
A “Prefer not to say” option isn’t a loophole. It’s the release valve that keeps an otherwise well-designed field from backfiring.
A form that reads well to you might be unusable for someone navigating it with a screen reader or keyboard only. Run these checks before launch, not after complaints arrive.
Pro Tip: If your drop-off rate on the demographics module exceeds your core application’s drop-off rate by more than a few points, that’s a design problem, not an applicant problem.
Every gender-diverse candidate has filled out a form that forced them into the wrong box. They remember which employers did, and which ones didn’t. An application form is often the first real interaction someone has with your organization, and the language and options on that form act as a preview of your workplace culture, not just a data collection step.

Mygwork works with employers who understand that connection between form design and candidate trust. The organizations that show up authentically, from genuinely inclusive workplace signals all the way down to how a pronoun field is worded, consistently see stronger engagement from LGBTQ+ talent.
A few ways to extend this beyond the form itself:
The pattern that stands out across every inclusive form redesign is how little it actually takes. Swapping a gender dropdown for a pronoun field with free-text, or moving demographics to an optional section after the core application, isn’t a redesign. It’s a few hours of work with outsized returns on candidate trust.
What I’d push back on is treating this as a one-time audit. Terminology shifts, legal requirements change by jurisdiction, and the multi-select list that felt comprehensive in 2023 will feel dated within a couple of years. Bring in employee resource groups or community reviewers before you launch a new version, not after someone flags a problem. They’ll catch things a well-meaning HR team won’t, because they’ve filled out the bad version of this form before.
Fixing your application form solves half the problem. The other half is making sure LGBTQ+ candidates actually find you in the first place, and that’s where a lot of well-intentioned redesigns stall out.

myGwork connects employers with LGBTQ+ professionals and allies who are specifically looking for workplaces that get the details right, from job listings to employer profiles that showcase your diversity initiatives and culture. Instead of hoping the right candidates stumble onto your improved form, myGwork puts your open roles in front of a network that’s already screening for exactly the inclusive signals you just built. Organizations use the platform for job postings, employer branding, and access to a talent pool that values transparency about how demographic data gets used, not just whether it’s collected. If your form redesign is done or in progress, the next step is making sure it’s seen by the people it was built for. Explore employer resources on myGwork and see how a listing or branding profile fits into your hiring plan.